Do you keep getting passed over for promotions?
Do you seem unable to thrive in your own business?
Could your difficulties be caused by a fear of marketing yourself or your business?
The Law of Attraction says that like begets like. You can achieve success by shifting where you focus your energy. Think of a time when you achieved a goal or were close to it. Then what happened? Who didn't like it? Did something uncomfortable happen around that time? Do you feel fear, sadness or anger when you recall the situation?
If yes, those feelings are telling you that you are stuck energetically. The problem is likely subconscious and energetic, not logical or intellectual. You are in protection mode and don't even know it.
Your subconscious mind runs 95 percent of what you do: breathing, digestion, thinking. When you feel that doing something is risky and unsafe, or that you'd never have time to do what you'd like, or that people will be jealous and reject you, you are subconsciously afraid. Perhaps at some level, you perceive success as painful, hard and unsafe. You can do all the right things and still not achieve your desires because of deeper concerns about success.
This should come as a relief to those who have labeled themselves as a loser, stupid or lazy. Your reactions are about safety and protection, not logic.
But how can you change? Meridian tapping, a form of acupressure with verbal coaching, stirs up and clears out the old energy. It brings relief easily and sometimes very quickly. When you tap and talk, you release beliefs and emotions that created a pattern that causes pain.
If you have never experienced tapping, you will be amazed at what is in your way. It's not about logic. It's about your energy.
Jaworski is a success and energy coach. Contact her at firstname.lastname@example.org or (585) 621-7571.
This column is written by members of the Rochester Women's Network (rwn.org).